Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Growing Pains


Sometimes I just wish that I could go back 20 years. Back to the little girl that washed her bedroom wood floors everyday, pretending to be Cinderella without a care in the world. Although I am lucky enough to have found my prince charming, sometimes growing up really is painful no matter how happy you are. I have always found it easy to move on and change was always new and exciting to me. This is why I find it easier than most to leave everything I have ever known and move to Singapore with my fiance. But sometimes, we encounter changes that were never a part of the plan that we have for ourselves, which has been heartbreaking. I have to remind myself that everything that happens is a part of God's plan for me and that everything works out the way it is supposed to. It's funny because as a child I was in such a hurry to grow up but now that I have, I just want to go back to times where I was carefree and the only thing I had to worry about was trying to get my brothers to play house with me. On a side note, I can not wait to start my adventure with Jason in two short weeks. Oh how it sure is bittersweet! Bring on the lemons, I'll make some damn good lemonade!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

ENGAGED!!! :)




Jason and I got engaged on March 20, 2010! It truly was the best day of my life.

Here's the story:
For a couple of weeks, I've been begging Jason to walk on the Greenway with me by our house. Saturday was supposed to be a very nice day. A couple days prior, he told me that it would be perfect to go on a walk on Saturday so he could take some pictures before dinner at my parent's house at 6:30pm. Jason loves photography and told me that he also wanted to try out his new remote shutter release that my parents gave him for his birthday. That morning we ate breakfast, layed out on the back deck and took a nap. When I woke up he told me to change out of my sweats so we could go for our walk. I questioned why I should change and he said that he wanted to take a picture or two of me and knows that I wouldn't like to be photographed in sweats. So we got ready and were off to the Greenway. When we got there, we started walking down the path. He set up his tripod and took some pictures of the wetlands. After taking a few pictures, he picked it up and we began walking again. At the second stop he set up the remote shutter release. He told me to stand in front of the camera so he could test it out. I told him that I wanted him in some pictures too, so he came in front of the camera to join me. I took a couple pictures making silly faces, not having a clue what was about to happen. After taking some pictures, he asked for the remote so he could show me how to take a picture without the remote being in the picture. As soon as he took the remote from me, he started to get down on one knee. I was wondering what he was doing, since he had flip flops on (bending down like he was going to tie his shoe). Then, I realized he was going for his pocket and took out a ring box. I was in complete shock! Jason got down on his knee and asked me to marry him with my beautiful ring shining in its box, while he snapped pictures the whole time. I grabbed the box and just started to stare and him and the ring. He stood up and asked, "Is that a yes?" I was still so shocked that I just hugged him and kissed him, completely speechless. Finally I said YES! He then said, "You can take the ring out of the box and put it on you know!" I immediately put on my gorgeous ring and could not stop starting at it, sparkling in the sunlight. We walked back to the car, where I began calling some family and close friends. I was truly on cloud nine. Jason told me all about how he had told my friends and family that he was going to propose that day and that my Mom even met up with him that week because he wanted to show her the ring. On a side note, we usually try to visit with my family once a weekend since we are leaving in 3 weeks for Singapore so I did not find it unusual that we were going to dinner over there around 6:30pm. We got home and started to get ready for dinner. Jason was taking forever! We finally left the house and were on our way to my parent's house when he told me that he owed his friend Bob $20 from poker the night before and wanted to stop by Buckhead Pizza where he and his family were having dinner so he could drop off the money real quick. I began to get irritated because we were running late and it was already 6:45pm. I called my Mom to tell her that we were going to be late but she did not answer. Not thinking a thing about it, as Bob works out of town during the week, we walked into Buckhead Pizza. We walked into the back patio area and were almost at the table when I realized that my entire family, his sister, and our friends were all there for a surprise engagement dinner party for us. I was sooo shocked and immediately started bawling while they were all standing up, clapping for us. Two wonderful surprises in one day! I am so blessed to have such special people in my life! We drank champagne and had a wonderful dinner. It truly was the most perfect engagement and I am so glad that Jason included our friends and family, especially since we are moving soon. I am so lucky to have such a sweet fiance. I can not wait to spend the rest of my life with Jason. I am so blessed!

~Soon to be Mrs. Shannon

Friday, March 19, 2010

To Do List


Ok, so first I would like to apologize for being MIA the last couple of weeks. My life has been crazy busy and I realized that it was time to BREATHE and post a new blog.

I don't think time has ever flown by so quickly and it is crazy scary to think that we will be moving to Singapore IN LESS THAN A MONTH! We have soooo much to get done/do that I'm beginning to feel as if I am stuck in quick sand, trying to get out.

Here is my checklist:
~Pack, pack, pack!!!
~Get International Insurance squared away
~Go to the Dentist
~Get my haircut
~Go shopping!!!
~Get a new driver's license

Thankfully, here's what I've already completed:
~I sold my car!!
~Quit work
~Got Bella fixed
~Sold a lot of stuff on Craigslist

April 15 will be here before we know it. For those that have asked, we are pretty much booked until we leave. We really won't be around at all in April since we are going to Missouri for Spring Break to Jason's parent's buffalo ranch. I hope to see you all before we go!

Alright... back to packing... :(

Friday, March 5, 2010

Another chapter closes...


Today is officially my last day of work at Sedgwick. It seems like just yesterday I got hired. It's quite surreal actually. Today is first time that I actually FEEL like we are moving. Never in a million years would I have thought that I would be where I am today. I am so happy, excited, blessed, anxious, nervous, thrilled... there really are no proper words. This is my most scatterbrained post to date, but it's perfect because that's how I am in this moment.

The thing that I can put together in my head is that I am going to miss all the great people I have had the chance to work with and get to know, you know who you are. You have helped me through some of my hardest times and have been truly uplifting. Thanks for showing your support in everything that I do and for your encouragement. I hope to remain friends with all of you. You are some damn good people.

I'm not gonna cry... I'm not gonna cry... I'm not gonna cry...

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Dr. Seuss


Yesterday was Dr. Seuss' birthday. I thought this was fitting because Jason and I just got back from Orlando last week and got to meet Cat in the Hat while we were at Universal's Islands of Adventure. I sure do love me some Dr. Seuss!

You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. ~ Theodor Seuss Geisel, 1904 - 1991

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

For Sale



For most people, April 15th is looked upon as being tax day. For Jason and I, however, that is the day we begin our adventure across the world in Singapore. I know that this month is going to fly by and we have so much that we have to get done before we leave. Talk about stress! My last day of work (in the office, anyway) is this Friday. After Friday, you can offically call me the Craigslister because I will then be trying to sell many of our belongings before we skip town.

As a child, I used to love visiting garage sales with my Dad on Saturdays. We would walk around and pick through other people's trash and it would become our treasure. I've decided that it is much easier being on that side of the sale, especially when you have a time limit.

Nowadays, people tend to use websites such as Craigslist and Ebay. I have a love/hate relationship with these sites. Yes, you can sell your items quickly and effectively, but it is a pain in the butt taking a picture of each item and writing a description of it. Then, of course, you have to either send the item or meet up with the buyer. Major pain! Oh well, maybe I will sell the big items online and then have a mini garage sale or donate the rest.

Either way, I am very excited to be starting over and beginning our life together.

On that note, if you have any requests for anything that we own, let me know.

Ciao!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

What Love Means...


What Love means to a 4-8 year old.

Touching words from the mouth of babes. A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?' The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

See what you think:



'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'

Rebecca- age 8



'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'

Billy - age 4



'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'

Karl - age 5



'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'

Chrissy - age 6



'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'

Terri - age 4



'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'

Danny - age 7



'Love is when you kiss all the time.. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that.
They look gross when they kiss'

Emily - age 8



'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents
and listen.'

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)



'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'

Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)



'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'

Noelle - age 7



'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'

Tommy - age 6



'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling..

He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'

Cindy - age 8



'My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'

Clare - age 6



'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'

Elaine-age 5



'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'

Chris - age 7



'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'

Mary Ann - age 4



'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'

Lauren - age 4



'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)

Karen - age 7



'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.'

Mark - age 6



'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'

Jessica - age 8



And the final one

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

'Nothing, I just helped him cry'